forums - sometimes things are just fucked

i had a great night last friday. i went on a uni pub crawl with all the adelkaide uni affiliated colleges. met a lot of different people from around the place. i met one girl as i was going to the exchane from the stag and she said "come back to the stag, the exchange sucks" so we held hands and went back there. i found out today that she died in a car accident that night. i didnt even know her name. thats fucked.

Ouch, sorry to hear that...lifes cruel that way

yeah its ok, i was just having a bit of a think about life and all that shit. its weird though. never had anything like that happen before. guess im lucky.

Oo i am sorry to hear that DJ Ray D , its not nice wen that kinda stuff happens , kinda makes u see how important life really is

indeed..

it kind of makes you think what could happin, if you went... if you were 10mins late. if you didnt do what you did
its like a while ago a girl got raped and murdered, her body was dumped in a field i walk past this field evry morning to goto the train station.... the body was found maybe 2 hours after i walked past on the way to the train station... i dont how i would have coped if i found her...

the worst part is i knew her, she went to my school

yeah it does. i wondered about stuff like that. like if i'd said lets go to church or something different or whatever, then maybe stuff wouldn't have happened. trying not to beat myself up over it though. like i said, i didn't know her or anything and nothing will change now. when someone told me someone was killed in an accident i thought, shit thats bad, then they described who she was with and stuff and i was like shit, i was talking to her that night. i dunno....first time that sorta thing has happened in my life. has made me think a little more about the things ive done...

Sorry to hear about that Tim..

Been in a similar predicament where you go through the "what if" scenario and you do for sure hold yourself responcible in thinking maybe if we had a drink or talked longer it wouldnt have happened have been there and done that and its a shitty thing to go through..

Guess whether we like it things happen for a reason call it fate or whatever you like and some ppl dont believe in shit like that but your only young and everything happens in life to teach us something, whether it be a tragedy occuring or someone coming into our lives and then leaving for whatever reason.. and i'd be pretty right in saying that there will be plenty of more obsticles that come up and try us too.. The big thing is how we deal with them.. I cant tell you how to feel or what to do about things like that and theres no right or wrong way to feel..

Do what you thinks right and go with your heart even if sometimes your head tells you otherwhise...

Not sure if that made any sense but I knew what I was trying to say..

BTW Tim your old ladys tops mate shes my hook up at the library here I even talked to her about you today

I really dont think going to church would have changed what happened. I have known people who have gone to church all their life and still have tragic things happen to them.

That is a sad story Ray-D...

Sorry to hear about that Ray D but I know how you feel as something similar happened at my work. A guy who sat about 10 metres away from my on my floor was killed in a hit and run the weekend before. Didn't really know him that well but was just weird not seeing him anymore.
Really does make you value every day! You never know what's around the corner

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Originally posted by crazy1
I really dont think going to church would have changed what happened. I have known people who have gone to church all their life and still have tragic things happen to them.

That is a sad story Ray-D...

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Don't waste a day...
It could happen to anyone at any time!

A cousin of mine also lost a friend in a car accident on the weekend, it makes for very solemn moments

Paul

sorry to hear that ray-d.
things like thi realy make you sit down and think.
Recently the passing away of anthony (R.I.P). I didn't know him personaly.but friends did and it hit pretty dam close to home and it just makes you appreciate everything more.

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Originally posted by junglism
sorry to hear that ray-d.
things like thi realy make you sit down and think.
Recently the passing away of anthony (R.I.P). I didn't know him personaly.but friends did and it hit pretty dam close to home and it just makes you appreciate everything more.

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thanks for that guys. it is a sad story. but its ok. it really just made me think thats all about all the values of life etc and how some of my "problems" are really a bit of a joke.

thanks

(chrys - haha at my mum, what did she have to say? glad to hear she helps you out with your books )

sorry to here dood

ive been hearing heaps of bad things happening in the last 3-4 weeks and it is just times like these it does really make me think of stuff such as maybe it couldo f been me if i was 10 mins late or something ...

That's why I say to whoever is coming to Funk it Up...

Please take care driving and make sure you have plenty of rest before your trip up or back

Ray-d I cant tell you what we discussed was secrets womens bussiness Better be a good boy though!!!

Just stiring she just said that you enjoy your djing and that you probably spend more time doing that than studying (something along those lines :lol

Yeah I always hassle the library call them with a list as long as my arm for books, they even know its me before I say my name when I call now

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she just said that you enjoy your djing and that you probably spend more time doing that than studying

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I'm really sorry to hear that Ray-man. It does make you realise how important every little moment is. There have been a lot of terrible things happening lately to people we know... And - the whole 'what if i'd done this' thing... of course that's going thru you're head. Who knows if you could have really helped it. I always think there's a parallel universe somewhere, where that didn't happen. You're prolly still there holding hands with her and she's still around Hope you cheer up babe

thanks guys. yeah im feeling better now. i got my deck back from repair yesterday so have been err missing uni.